“You Need to Be in School, Not Marriage” – VDM Advises Peller

VeryDarkMan advises Peller to focus on education before marriage, urging the TikTok star and Jarvis to carefully consider their wedding plans

Social media critic Martins Vincent Otse, popularly known as VeryDarkMan, has advised TikTok personalities Peller and Jarvis to reconsider their planned marriage, urging them to focus on personal development and education before taking the next step.

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VeryDarkMan made the comments in a video shared on his social media page after Peller and Jarvis announced that they would hold their wedding on August 1, 2026.

The online personality said the couple should approach marriage with caution, arguing that the decision carries responsibilities beyond their experience as content creators.

The comments centred on his belief that Peller, in particular, should prioritise education rather than marriage at his current stage of life.

“Jarvis and Peller, I hope you actually know what you guys are doing because marriage is not a joke or a content creation. You really need to think about this,” VeryDarkMan said.

“Peller, you are still a very young boy that needs to be in school, not in marriage. Think very well,” he added.

Peller and Jarvis, who have gained a large following through their online content, recently shared plans to formalise their relationship, attracting attention from fans and fellow social media personalities.

VeryDarkMan’s remarks have sparked discussions online about young celebrities, public relationships and the pressures that come with making major personal decisions while building a career in the public eye.

While some social media users supported his advice, others argued that personal decisions such as marriage should be left to individuals who understand their circumstances and responsibilities.

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The debate highlights broader conversations around youth, education, financial independence and the challenges faced by young public figures navigating relationships under constant public attention.